Monday, 15 June 2015

(Day 8) Single Woman 30-days Blogging Challenge

Assalamualaikum and hi!

I am so excited to write this 8th day topic. Guess what it is? You cannot. This topic I might be slightly ambitious and forgive me for that in advance J


8)      Five things that are most important to you in a future mate

Specification in future mate. Before, I even wrote that I do not care what shape my future partner will be. As long as he is beragama and good at sosialisation. My heart would be at ease. Big ease. So you got my two main points. Bingo!

BERAGAMA

I do not know what the exact word for it but I am pretty sure you are good at imagining and guessing. Wait! As long as you are not guessing him to wear serban 24/7. No no that is not what I mean. It is okay as in he is good in guiding without harshen people’s feeling.  Just qanaah. Moderate. Not too extreme and not too obvious but moderate in clothing, speaking, spending(super but not too extremist economic). I think that would be every parents’ wishes to see their children settle down with the guy who can guide them, not  guiding.


GOOD SOCIALISATION SKILLS


Allah said, 

“Women impure are for men impure and men impure for women impure and women of purity are for men purity and men of purity are for women of purity”

So, I believe in what you give is what you will get back. Now, I am trying to improve my communication skills with the families, friends and community around me. But, naturally borne accent is an exception. Hahahaah. When I communicate with standard BM speakers, my slang tends to slip often. Mind that.
My heart always flutters at guys who communicate well and mix well with people around them. GuyS. Hahahhaha I guess who can buy my heart.*kbye* It is an excitement which i cannot decide whether it is love? Or lust? I just Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee guy who can MIX well. It is psychologically related. You should read those books. I love how the authors described women and men in their own ways.

my steve hahaha source:google

GOOD COOK

Like Steve in My Kitchen Rules please(puppy eyes) hahaha. Okay kidding but seriously. I am not interested in cooking. My mom, aunties, grandma, they are all good cook(the best I mean) especially tok. I love her curry. Tempting.  But unfortunately, I am not interested in cooking. I would like to try cooking but maybe sometimes in a one fine day. Hahahaha it is a bless to have a good cook husband. He can cook if I am too tired and just lazy to get into the kitchen or even holding my glass to bottom up the drink heheheh. If I kind of ‘mengidam’ these and those, he can cook them. Well, guys who cannot cook can have a try too! And do not forget to take the ‘lemparan kuali’ bonus along heheh.


WISE


Just be wise with the words and attitudes. That is just enough. Orang cakap biar educated dan beradab. 

source:google

BERKERJAYA

Sesiapapun tak nak lelaki yang menganggur kan? hahahha a good leader has to support his people. So, jelas lah kut haha. no further explanation.

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