Be more considerate :(

As a teenager myself, I have my own baran. Well, wouldn’t it is too obvious if I keep smiling and laughing without expressing my TRUE feeling , i mean anger, deperssion, stress. I can’t let this feeling bottled up to myself till the end right ( agree please!! ) haha. Even if someone annoyed you, toyed your feeling . You HAVE to let them out . It’s doesn’t matter by writing it out, yell it out, let the trusted one know, at least, LET IT OUT . ( i mean it ) J

Even as a daughter, I got annoyed with my parents ( sometimes! ) L I was just like ...

“ Why do I have to do everything in this house ??? “

“ Am I living for the others ??? “

“ What is my life actually .. ?? “

I kept questioning myself because everyone surrounds me stressed me a lot. To me, I wonder if many daughters out there were just like me. Even a single one.

House chores are a homework, for the whole family. Not for the DAUGHTERS only. Sometimes, the whole family leaving the daughters ALONE to sweep the floor, clean the dishes, wash the clothes ( ALTOGETHER !!! ) L It’s not a sin or wrong or shame for the male in the house to help cleaning the dish. Yeahh, dia jugak yang makan kan ? Jadi, tak salah kot. Rasulullah pun galakkan lelaki tolong perempuan dalam kerja rumah.

Parents too, please stop giving the daughters stress by saying any bad things to them, cursing them, praying for bad luck and etc . It’s a shame for you to do that. I mean, how can a parents do that ? ( take noteee !! )  I’m not a parent yet but I’m speaking based on my observation and experience too . Hihiiiii J They might copy the parents and the same thing keep going on in the family tree ( Nauzubillah L ) So, sampai bila bila la family tak berkembang kannnn ?

But, aku agak yakin la yang remaja sekarang semakin bijak ( kannnn ??? ) dan mampu nak rancang dan bentuk how your future family will be. Samada melahirkan anak yang degil, derhaka, tak dengar cakap, soleh ataupun solehah semua tu bergantung kepada ibu bapa. Takkan nak serahkan semuanya kat cikgu kut. Everything starts at home JJadi, bergantung pada parents lah nak jadikan rumah tu syurga or neraka to the children. About iman tak dapat diwarisi tu lain cerita lah pulak ekkkk, sekarang we are talking about the parents’ habits to the children. Jadi, tak perlu nak terkejutlah kut kalau anak seusia 3 tahun boleh sebut bodoh kat parents diorang sendiri sebab maybe the kid pernah dengar perkataan tu slipped out of the parents’ mouth . Nak salahkan siapaaaaa ???

Let's just be happy :)

Also, bila parents asyik merungut depan anak-anak, mendengus dan marah-marah, siapa yang suka kan ? Anak-anak boleh naik muak dan benci sebab rasa ibubapa tak ikhlas terhadap mereka. Need to avoid that. That’s why sometimes few teens tak suka share tentang ibubapa diorang tauu . And got jealous easily with their friends. Need to avoid that J

Till then, XoXO