Perfectionist Attitude

Assalamualaikum and hi!

Tomorrow is my first exam yet i still have time to UPDATE MY BLOG ??? Well, just a quick one while it is still fresh in my mind :) I was asked by a senior in one of my whatsapp groups:

So, what would you do if you want to advise someone who acts like he/she is the most perfect one? Any suggestions?

Allahu. I can not think more than that when the question is specifically asked to me. I was once, like that. It was the old me which I will be answering. So, a brilliant step must be taken so the question would not take me down.

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 To me, the feeling of what you think inside you is what made you up. Hmmm, how to explain it? Well, it is like this.

You love the freedom  but you know the freedom is up to the(only) certain things.

You love traveling but you know you do not have enough money to be everywhere you want L

Else? And yet, you know you have limited freedom to travel even if you have the money because you are UNDERAGE! Hahahaha. Okay.. I think I gave you a bad example. But, that’s what I want to say.

What I am trying to say here is the freedom inside you makes you be what you want. However, there are certain actions that limit the freedom. And why you limit the freedom? Because you know how far you can be after you have tried them J

So, that is what I am now. I love the freedom I have now. I do what I want to do. But, the things that I think I should not do, I limit them. It is not the ‘things’ that limit me from doing so, but because I know. Because I acknowledge them.

“Ohhh, I should not supposed to do this and that,”

But, when there is time where you are high and you feel like,

“It’s okay to do this, do that, because experience costs you a lot. So, grab a chance and do what you like”

So, that is when I will do whatever I want because I do not care anymore about what people said. Because they are not in my shoes! And, they do not know what I have been experiencing. So the best anwer I can give him was –

I DON’T HAVE SPECIFIC SUGGESTION BUT SEMUANYA BASED ON YOUR OWN INITIATIVE. TU, BASICALLY MY SUGGESTION.

BE WISE. SEBAB TU DALAM BERDAKWAH KENA BERHIKMAH J WALLAHUALAM.

The answer is better because if I specifically want to know:

what did the person do until you think he/she likes to act like the perfect one, or

What is her/his characteristics from your point of view or

What is her/his background?

I think heyyy… I should not do that. Because lastly, I will be the person who only know how to judge and assume people’s life. Nooo .. I do not want to be like that. I just do not prefer that. But, it depends. 

Assuming people’s actions as if we know what happened in their life will result in your own imagination or assumption action. 

Hmmm, to be exact—you will assume he/she to be as what you imagine. 

You will assume he/she will not do this, not do that. Meanwhile, you do not even concern about his/her poblems.

But in other parts, yes you can assume. Yes. Assume the good things from him/her. Then, you will be freed from any bad thoughts and enemy(if you want). Lulz 

So, that is what my mind is saying right now. That' it. 

Ok bye mwah :*