Cerewet atau berhati-hati ?

Aku nak cakap siang siang ni, bukan nak memandai je but i speak out my mind to those who listen my opinions. But, telinga aku berdesing setiap kali mendengar someone yang into the marriage merungut tentang pasangan dia. Kebetulan mungkin , aku terdengar rungutan dia ? Tapi, bila diingat balik pasangan yang dirungutkan , patutkah aku salahkan dia? Yeahh, I'm not boasting over just because I'm not married yet, or I don't have someone in my heart ( hear that guys?!? ) . Hahaha . But, for me to find a lifetime partner , kita kena berhati hati TANPA cerewet.

Alam bercinta memang manis bagi sesetengah orang ( I dunno as I never taste it :3 ) Tapi perlu ke manis bercinta ditumpukan kepada keinginan nafsu semata mata ? Tak faham ? Okay, macam ni, dalam bercinta, manis bermanja ( mungkin ) perlu , tapi melebih lebih tak perlu kut, cukup sekadar pengenalan kita untuk tahu dia macam mana , sikap, peribadi dengan orang sekeliling, peribadi dengan alam , peribadi dengan diri sendiri . Huuhh ? I mean, dia takkan merokok kalau sayang nyawa kan ? Dia takkan drive over the limit kalau sayang nyawa kan ? So, mungkin the girl fikir dia tahu segalanya tentang lelaki itu by looking his speaking, his dressing ( you look at that ??!?!! ) I mean, just look QUIETLY at him , his attitude . ok fineeee :3 Aku tak reti nak speak this out sebab tak pernah  dating but you're smart girl ;)

Jangan pulak lepas kahwin, baru tahu lelaki tu tak solat jumaat rupanya . Tak solat fardhu rupanya . How he will lead the family into the JANNAH ? How people should respect him kalau dia sendiri tak respect Allah ? That's why i mean, be careful without being picky . Pastu, mula lah mengadu how hard your life sebab asyik paksa the husband to solat jumaat . How hard to manage your life sebab the guy is sooooo spendthrift !  Sesal kemudian tiada guna. Go on je la dengan your marriage ( good luck! ) Berusaha untuk berubah . Allah is always there :)

I'm too, not to boast myself ( of course! ) but i'm giving out the best of me to those in need. Without a pay . heheee :P  Bila tengok a handsome guy, we'll proud sebab sejuk hati tengok muka tapi apa guna bila panas baran ? Bila tengok an average guy, we'll proud sebab all he did is to take care of our heart but how about Allah ? Can he satisfied Allah ? We'll never know. Then what should we do ? Istikharah :) Istikharah when you think that you can't even think how to think ! ( LOLL! )

Till then,
xOxO